CONFESSIONS MEME

[eightfoldfiend]

Confess your secrets

♢ Post a comment with your character spilling their confessions and innermost thoughts for all to see ♢ Go around and comment to other characters ICly, expressing shock, awe, disgust, anger, etc. ♢ Discuss, accuse, commiserate, threadjack, etc

Comments

[bakudan_bambino]

Well you wouldn’t be how you are now without the person you were before.

Only change if it’s going to make you happy or if it’s what you think is best for you. If it’s for anyone else, they aren’t worth keeping around.

[peninhand]

You have to adapt a bit to people though... [A pause.] Like for example, if you're so unlikable no one will ever love you... I think it's worth doing a few changes to yourself.

[bakudan_bambino]

That's if you want their love to begin with. Self-love is more important than the love of others. If you make changes for other people and that makes you hate yourself, then it's not a change, it's just you doing what they want you to do.

For them, not for you.

It's not worth it.

If, however, you view that change as self-improvement, then that is for yourself. I'd rather call that growth.

[peninhand]

. . .

[ Okay, she's not feeling like admitting that the love of others is more important than self-love to her. ]

Yeah, you really make a lot of good points, ahaha...!

[bakudan_bambino]

[He'd feel bad, but really he's trying to save her the misery of trying to please others all the time.]

People come and go. You've got you forever.

Do what you enjoy, and if other people want to join you, then that's cool, too.

[Treat yourself!]

[peninhand]

Mhm. Thank you! I'll try to remember that.

[ And promptly go back to her old ways because someone here has pinned all of her hopes on love, unfortunately. ]